πŸšͺ What Not to Do When Leaving a Job β€” And What to Do Instead


🧠 Why This Matters

Leaving a job isn’t just about saying goodbyeβ€”it’s a critical professional move that can shape your future opportunities, reputation, and mental well-being.

According to LinkedIn and Harvard Business Review, how you exit a company can:

  • Affect your references and rehire eligibility
  • Impact your professional network and brand
  • Influence team morale and productivity

This blog breaks down George Stern’s infographic into actionable advice, with added psychological insights and real-world relevance.


πŸŸ₯ Don’t Leave Without Notice

❌ What not to do: Ghosting your employer
βœ… What to do: Give formal notice to ensure a smooth transition

πŸ”¬ Brain Science Insight: Ghosting is often driven by anxiety or avoidance behavior. But dopamine regulation improves when we complete uncomfortable tasks, like delivering tough news professionally.

πŸ’¬ Real Story: A software developer ghosted a startup in Pune. Months later, his background check failed at a multinational due to the missing exit formalities.


🧠 Don’t Decide Emotionally

❌ What not to do: Resign in anger or haste
βœ… What to do: Create a career plan and exit with intention

🧠 Psychology Tip: Emotional decisions activate the amygdala, your brain’s fear center. Take time to process before acting. Try the 24-hour rule: Sit on the decision for a day before sending your resignation.


πŸ’° Don’t Blindly Take a Counteroffer

❌ What not to do: Stay just for more money
βœ… What to do: Reassess your core reasons for leaving

πŸ“ˆ Statistic: According to Forbes, 80% of employees who accept a counteroffer leave within 6 months anyway.


🧾 Don’t Ignore Legal Agreements

❌ What not to do: Copy files, take data, or ignore NDAs
βœ… What to do: Review contracts and return company property

βš–οΈ Legal Note: Breaching confidentiality agreements can lead to lawsuits. Always ask HR about exit documentation.


πŸ•ΉοΈ Don’t Slack Off

❌ What not to do: Mentally check out
βœ… What to do: Stay engaged, document work for your replacement

🧠 Productivity Insight: Completing projects releases serotoninβ€”boosting confidence and reducing exit stress.


πŸŒ‰ Don’t Burn Bridges

❌ What not to do: Leave dramatically
βœ… What to do: Say thanks, be respectful

🎯 Long-Term Tip: Always think in terms of your β€œreputation capital.” People move industries and companiesβ€”you never know when you’ll cross paths again.


πŸ§‘β€πŸ€β€πŸ§‘ Don’t Ghost Clients or Partners

❌ What not to do: Disappear from external comms
βœ… What to do: Do handovers, introductions, and send closure emails


πŸ’¬ Don’t Badmouth the Company

❌ What not to do: Rant on social media
βœ… What to do: Share feedback constructively in exit interviews

πŸ§ͺ Emotional Maturity: Practicing restraint builds EQ (Emotional Intelligence). It’s a trait top employers value deeply.


πŸ”₯ Don’t Burn Out While Leaving

❌ What not to do: Overwork yourself to β€œprove” your worth
βœ… What to do: Balance responsibilities with wellness

πŸ“Š Insight: Burnout in the final month leads to poor handovers and long-term stress. Self-care = Professional care.


πŸ§‘β€πŸ’» Don’t Dump on Your Team

❌ What not to do: Offload everything last minute
βœ… What to do: Plan transitions, update trackers, and share documentation


πŸ‘‹ Don’t Leave Without a Goodbye

❌ What not to do: Slip out unnoticed
βœ… What to do: Say farewell, thank mentors, and connect on LinkedIn

πŸ”— Networking Wisdom: Those last messages cement relationships and often lead to future opportunities.



🎨 Thumbnail Ideas

  • πŸ’Ό Half-packed office desk with text overlay: “Quitting? Don’t Do This!”
  • πŸšͺOpen door with footprints and a β€œThank You” card
  • 🧠 Emoji face split between angry (red) and calm (blue) showing emotional vs. thoughtful exits

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πŸ’‘ Final Thought

Leaving a company isn’t the endβ€”it’s part of your long-term brand.

Treat your resignation with as much care as you treated your first day on the job. Your future employersβ€”and your future selfβ€”will thank you.




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